Sidebar Overview: The Four Tabs
Wingman, People, Brain, Settings. What each tab is for and where to look for what.
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DateIQ lives in a sidebar on the right of your Tinder tab. Everything is reachable through four tabs at the bottom. Here's the map.
Wingman — your command center
The default tab and where you'll spend most of your time. It's organized around what to do right now.
- Next Action stack — the prioritized queue of matches and recommendations. Each card is one match, one specific action ("send the first message," "revive this thread," "propose a date"). See Next Actions.
- Score My Profile card — when DateIQ thinks your profile is the bottleneck, this shows up as a system card. See Score My Profile.
- Live Activity — what the agent is doing in the background (auto-swipe runs, sync progress).
- Run controls — start swipe runs, send queued replies, sync, all in one place.
People — your match list
Every match you've ever had, searchable and filterable. This is where you go when you want to browse rather than work the stack.
- Search and filter — name, bio keywords, stage, distance, Affinity Score thresholds, who replied, who ghosted, who unmatched.
- Sync menu (top right) — pull fresh data from Tinder, run profile-detail captures, score matches. See Syncing matches.
- Click any match to open their detail panel with conversation, profile read, drafts, and the Coach in scope on them.
- Bulk actions — message multiple matches at once, move several to a stage, etc.
Brain — what teaches the AI
Everything that tunes how DateIQ behaves on your behalf.
- Voice — Vibe, Humor, Edge, Formality sliders plus presets. See Voice Sliders Explained.
- Match preferences — Train, Edit, and Score buttons. This is where you teach DateIQ your taste. See Training the Wingman.
- Reply style — pending thumbs feedback on drafts; the Extract preferences button consolidates it into voice notes.
- Swipe profiles — saved auto-swipe configurations (location, filters, AI gate, Wingman influence).
- Active-time scheduler — when auto-swipe is allowed to run.
If something feels off about how DateIQ writes or who it ranks high, the fix is almost always in Brain.
Settings — the boring-but-important stuff
Account, plan, location override, automation consent gates, danger-zone actions.
- Account — sign out, delete account, plan/billing link.
- Location — set any GPS coordinates and match in that city before you land.
- Automation consent — opt in (or out) of the fully-automated send modes. See AI Reply for what these gate.
- Privacy controls — see Data & Privacy.
The Coach — accessible from anywhere
The Coach dock floats above the tabs. Click the Dante icon any time to open a chat with full context on whichever match you have selected. See How the AI Coach Works.
Workflow tldr
For most users, a productive session looks like:
- Glance at Wingman → Next Action. Work the top three cards.
- Pop into People if you want to check on a specific match or browse.
- Open the Coach when a thread needs real thought.
- Visit Brain every few weeks to retune preferences as your taste sharpens.
- Settings only when something specific needs changing.
Related
Getting Started
Install DateIQ, sync your matches, train the wingman, score your profile, and start working through Next Actions.
Next Actions
The Wingman tab tells you who to message next and what to say. Here's how to work the stack.
How the AI Coach Works
What DateIQ's coach does, when to use it, and how to get useful answers out of it.
Get DateIQ for free
Install the extension and try it on your next match.
Get DateIQ for free
Install the extension and try it on your next match.