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How DateIQ works. Setup, features, privacy, and troubleshooting.
How the AI Coach Works
What DateIQ's coach does, when to use it, and how to get useful answers out of it.
Getting Started
Install DateIQ, sync your matches, train the wingman, score your profile, and start working through Next Actions.
Voice Sliders Explained
Vibe, Humor, Edge, Formality. What each one does and when to adjust it.
Sidebar Overview: The Four Tabs
Wingman, People, Brain, Settings. What each tab is for and where to look for what.
Syncing Matches from Tinder
How DateIQ pulls your matches into the local database, what gets captured, and how to refresh.
Training the Wingman
Teach DateIQ your taste by rating matches or by writing preferences directly. Then score every match against it.
Score My Profile
Run your own photos and bio through a vision model and get concrete suggestions for what to keep, swap, or drop.
Next Actions
The Wingman tab tells you who to message next and what to say. Here's how to work the stack.
AI Reply: Drafting Messages in Your Voice
Five contextual drafts per match, in your voice, grounded in her bio and photos. How to use it and when to skip it.
Data & Privacy
What DateIQ stores, what it doesn't, and how to delete your data.
Match Metrics Explained
Affinity, Priority, Temperature, Tension, Stage, Closing Readiness. What each metric means and when to filter by it.
AI Credits
What credits are, what each action costs, and how plans and packs add up.